For Couples Who Know God Should Come First
But Still Wonder What That Looks Like At Home
Don't Let Busyness
Bury The Connection In Your Marriage
A Date Night Meets Masterclass Experience
Build Rhythms of Connection
That Work In Every Day Married Life
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For Couples Ready To
Step Out of Busyness
And Into
Intentional Rhythms of Connection
What Busyness Does To Your Marriage
You talk every day.
But do you feel seen?
You share the same home.
But do you feel known?
You're doing life together.
But is your connection being buried?
Busyness Keeps Putting
Your Marriage In The Waiting Room
Work
Is scheduled
Church
Is scheduled
Family life
Is scheduled
Busyness Steals Your Connection Time
Your Marriage Does Not Need More Time
It Needs More Intention
You think life needs to slow down first.
It does not.
If your marriage has to wait for the calendar to clear, it will keep waiting.
Work will keep demanding more.
Church will keep pulling on you.
Family life will keep taking the space you thought was open.
The question is not,
“When will we have more time?”
The question is,
“When will we be more intentional?”
Connection Grows
When Intention
Is Practiced
You Keep Saying
We need to
Talk more
Pray together
Spend more quality
Time together
Intentional Practice
Transforms Your Marriage
Conversations Beyond Logistics
Connection Rhythms Where
You Feel Seen
You Feel Known
And Genuinely Understood
That Is The Rhythm Your Marriage Has Been Missing
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Step Into
The Rhythm
Your Marriage
Has Been Waiting For
Keeping It Lit Live Blends
The Warmth of a Romantic Date Night With
The Depth of a Master Class
Helping Couples Practice Intentional Connection In Real Time
Led by Debra and Jabari Steward
This Live Guided Experience Helps You
Step Out of The Busyness of Life
And Into Guided Moments of Connection Together
You Will Turn Toward Each Other Intentionally
Practice Connection in Real Time
Build Rhythms That Help You Feel Seen, Known, and Genuinely Understood
You Will Leave With One Clear Next Step for Your Marriage
An Experience Built for Couples Ready To Build With Intention
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Watch What Changes
When Connection Becomes Intentional
An Average 46% Increase
Couples reported measurable movement in at least one assessed area, with a 46% average increase in clarity, confidence, and structure for practicing intentional connection with God and one another.
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Walk Away With
A Rhythm For
Everyday Married Life
You Will Leave With Rhythms You Can Begin Practicing Right Away
Clarity
Shared Language
Practiced Connection
Biblical Insight
One Clear Next Step
A Rhythm To Carry Home
Keeping It Lit Live
A Trusted Marriage Enrichment Experience
Host: Saddleback Church South Bay
Average 46% Increase Across Clarity, Confidence, and Structure for Practicing Intentional Rhythms of Connection.
Approved for Academic Publication: The Journal of Contemporary Christian Practice
Endorsed by Bishop J.L. Sorrells, Sr.
Meet Your Hosts
Debra and Jabari Steward
Before this became a message we shared with couples around the world, it was a rhythm we needed to practice in our own home.
We were not facing a dramatic marital crisis.e were carrying work, ministry, family, and responsibility. Over time, busyness consumed our capacity to connect with God and one another. We knew God should be the center of our marriage. But we didn't know what that looked liked.
We discovered intentional rhythms of connection that work in every day married life.
Those rhythms helped us step out of marital disconnect an into deeper connection with God and one another. That lived experience is the heart of
Keeping It Lit Live.
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Step into a live marriage experience designed to help you and your spouse slow down, turn toward each other, and practice intentional connection in real time.
No public sharing required.
No waiting for life to slow down.
Just a guided space to give your marriage focused attention.
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