For Couples Who Are Done Letting Busyness Bury Their Connection
Stop Letting The Life You Built Bury The Marriage You Are Building
A Live Marriage Discipleship Experience
Step Out of The Busyness of Life
Build Rhythms of Connection
Leave with One Clear Next Step
For Couples Ready To
Step Out of Unexamined Busyness and Into
Intentional Rhythms of Connection
Sunday, July 19th @ 2:30pm
Saddleback Church South Bay Campus
24730 Narbonne Ave, Lomita, CA 90717
What Is Busyness Doing To Your Marriage?
You talk every day.
But do you feel seen?
You share the same home.
But do you feel known?
You keep life moving.
But is your connection being buried?
Marital disconnect does not begin with crisis.
It begins with
A full calendar
Surface-level conversations
Missed date nights
Maintaining the life around your marriage
While the connection inside it slowly erodes.
Busyness Keeps Putting
Your Marriage In The Waiting Room
Work gets scheduled
Church gets scheduled
Family life gets scheduled
Your Marriage Gets Squeezed Into Whatever Is Left
That Is How Marital Disconnect Gets Room To Grow
Your Marriage Does Not Need More Time
It Needs More Intention
You keep thinking life needs to slow down first. It does not. If your marriage has to wait for the calendar to clear, it will keep waiting.
Work will keep demanding more.
Church will keep pulling on your availability.
Family life will keep taking the space you thought was open.
The question is not,
“When will we have more time?”
The question is,
“When will our marriage get more intention?”
Connection Grows
When Intention Is Practiced
You Can Keep Saying
We need to talk more
We need to pray together
We need more quality time together
Intention Only Changes Your Marriage
When It Becomes
Something You Practice
Conversations Beyond Logistics
Connection Rhythms Where
You Feel Seen
You Feel Known
And Feel Genuinely Understood
That Is The Rhythm Your Marriage Has Been Missing
Step Into The Rhythm
Your Marriage Has Been Waiting For
Keeping It Lit Live Blends
The Warmth of a Romantic Date Night With
The Depth of a Master Class
Helping Couples Practice Connection In Real Time
Led by Debra and Jabari Steward
This Live Guided Experience Helps You
Step Out of The Busyness of Life and Into Guided Moments of Connection Together
You Will Turn Toward Each Other With Intention
Practice Connection in Real Time
Build Rhythms That Help You Feel Seen, Known, and Genuinely Understood
Leave With One Clear Next Step for Your Marriage
Rooted in God’s Word
Practical in Real Time
Built for Couples Ready to Build with Intention
Watch What Changes
When Connection Becomes Intentional
Couples Saw An Average 46% Increase
Across The Key Rhythms That Help Husbands and Wives
Build Intentional Connection with God and Each Other
See What Couples Are Saying About
Keeping It Lit Live
Walk Away With
A Rhythm For Everyday Married Life
You Will Leave With Rhythms You Can Begin Practicing Right Away
Clarity
Shared Language
Practiced Connection
Biblical Insight
One Clear Next Step
A Rhythm To Carry Home
A Trusted Marriage Enrichment Experience
Hosted at Saddleback Church South Bay
Average 46% increase across key connection rhythms
Approved for publication in The Journal of Contemporary Christian Practice
Endorsed by Bishop J.L. Sorrells, Sr.
Meet Your Hosts
Debra and Jabari Steward
Before this became a message they shared with couples around the world, it was a much rhythm they needed to practice in their own home.
They loved each other.
They were committed to each other.
But busyness was burying their connection.
So they began practicing simple rhythms of intentional connection.
Those rhythms helped them step out of marital disconnect and into deeper connection with God and one another.
That lived experience became the heart of
Keeping It Lit Live.
Today, their message reaches couples across
29 nations and 6 continents.
The work has been hosted at Saddleback Church South Bay, endorsed by Bishop J.L. Sorrells, and approved for publication by
The Journal of Contemporary Christian Practice.
Debra and Jabari lead couples through real-time practices that help them move from managing life together to nurturing a God-centered marriage.
Reserve Your Spot
Step into a live marriage experience designed to help you and your spouse slow down, turn toward each other, and practice intentional connection in real time.
No public sharing required.
No waiting for life to slow down.
Just a guided space to give your marriage focused attention.
